Search For Stammering Cure
Anyone who has to live life with a stammer will know how much of a hindrance it can make what fluent people see as easy tasks. Making a telephone call, ordering a drink, going out with chums and attending a job interview can be very hard for folk who stammer or stutter.
I’m one of these folks who had to endure the affects of stammering. I am now quite happy to report that I have been fluent for the last ten years and life hasn’t ever been so good. I was never ready to accept my stammer despite what lots of other so called stammering experts said. These people wanted me to stop fighting and to understand that I would live with the stammer for the remainder of my life. In their eyes if I accepted this fact it’d be a lot easier for me to cope. These pros are fluent people and it is easy for them to say.
Throughout my life I have tried to improve especially in the areas that I wasn’t content about. For me stammering was the final problem in my life and I was convinced that I would continue my search for a stammering cure for the rest of my life. There wasn’t any way I was going to ever accept it. Whenever anybody says to me a particular thing cannot be achieved, I think about this as a very negative approach. I have now decided to attempt to avoid these negative type people as they’re the ones who are feeble and I do need them to have any influence on my life, as they can easily if i am careless bring me down to their level.
I found stammering to be a very maddening problem. At times I could actually talk quite well, for example after I had drunk quite a lot of alcohol. I was able to talk well to one person but not to another. For many years I couldn’t work out why this was. To find some answers I attended speech treatment at various points in my life. Sadly these folk didn’t have the required information to help me. My search for a stammering cure would continue in a different place.
My advice for anyone who has a stammer is to never give up or accept your stammer. This is in a way accepting second choice which is exactly what i did when I had a stammer. I had to accept second best in my work, social and even love life as having a stammer made me believe that I could do no better.
February 3, 2010
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